To be wronged is nothing, unless you continue to remember it.”
― Confucius

What do you do to your bin when it is full? Throw the filths away, right? Ok. Many of us have our minds smell and stink worse than the dirtiest bin you have ever encountered. It’s disheartening to smell the polluted air that originates from that site. But ironically, this bins,if they could talk, would simply call some people names such as: dirty pig, restroom and/or aba dustbin. Huh! One will exclaim, but this is true of many persons we encounter everyday. They have decided to house those wastes that are meant for the vultures. Constant regurgitation on these wastes determines whether or not you will get a good morning from them or not. It so determines their day that you will invest minutes rendering apologies for crimes you never committed just to get them do a job for you.

“Not forgiving is like drinking rat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.”
― Anne Lamott

These ones we cage in the mind are having a good life out there, at least they never paid for the one bedroom flat where you housed their shadows, they never tell you thank you for that wnd nobody in the world will pay you for such devilish charity.Release yourself from the feelings that wand trade you happiness for nothing.

Life appears to me too short to be spent in nursing animosity or registering wrongs.”
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre

My dear, is there any freedom than “peace of mind”? This peace is calmer than the rivers, there are no fishes to stir it ones a while. Why do you decide to carry such heavy grudges which affect your relationships and productivity? That attitude is not fair at all. It feels better never to ruminate on such trash. Life will be more fun and interesting and of course lighter if we pack those dirty stuff, burn them in incinerators or throw them into the sea where no matter how your flesh tries, it cannot retrieve them.
“Let today be the day you stop being haunted by the ghost of yesterday. Holding a grudge & harboring anger/resentment is poison to the soul. Get even with people...but not those who have hurt us, forget them, instead get even with those who have helped us.” 

― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
Do not be a prison guard officer who protects offensive statements and acts of neighbors’ and passersby, it is not a worthwhile employment, Be your own boss in the mind. Lock up my dear and be free.

Last week, Manpower released their 2010 Talent Shortage Survey, a study of more than 35,000 companies in 36 countries. In all, 31 percent of employers said they were having trouble filling critical positions in their company, up one percent from last year. The ten countries hardest hit were Japan (76%), Brazil (64%), Argentina (53%), Singapore (53%), Poland (51%), Australia (45%), Hong Kong (44%), Mexico (43%), Peru (42%) and Taiwan (41%), although China was right behind that with 40%. In the U.S., 14 percent of employers reported trouble filling positions.

It is quite absurd that many employees are as lifeless as a log of wood in their place of work.I once heard a former banker with the bank of England who moved and is engaged in another money-making machine make this statement ''that's a horrible place and am glad I've left'' Why? This bank that is the dream of many who are in the accounting and banking classes. A place many teens and undergraduates day dream about.
This makes you and I to sit down on an upholstery and think. What is making the  work-for-money lifestyle so frustrating?
As for me, I think that 98% of the world population are all in a journey of acceptance.Everyone needs a place they can feel free and live out their life loudly and happily.Not a gloomy household.
What then should such victims think about while sited in their upholstery for a re-think? They should be plain to their hearts and truthfully discover what in life they would love to do if all jobs had equal prestige,salary,respect etc. Finding out your place is one discovery that sets your heart ready to fight tooth and nail gladly. You will feel at ease as long as you have found you passion.
A shiortcut which is not 100% is what do your friends,parents,peers and people affirm about you?
It could be an easy route to finding your place of joy.
 PONDER ON THESE QUOTES;


 We are each gifted in a unique and important way. It is our privilege and our adventure to discover our own special light. 

- Mary Dunbar

The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.
- Albert Einstein  

 Use what talents you possess; The woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.