To be wronged is nothing, unless you continue to remember it.”
― Confucius

What do you do to your bin when it is full? Throw the filths away, right? Ok. Many of us have our minds smell and stink worse than the dirtiest bin you have ever encountered. It’s disheartening to smell the polluted air that originates from that site. But ironically, this bins,if they could talk, would simply call some people names such as: dirty pig, restroom and/or aba dustbin. Huh! One will exclaim, but this is true of many persons we encounter everyday. They have decided to house those wastes that are meant for the vultures. Constant regurgitation on these wastes determines whether or not you will get a good morning from them or not. It so determines their day that you will invest minutes rendering apologies for crimes you never committed just to get them do a job for you.

“Not forgiving is like drinking rat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.”
― Anne Lamott

These ones we cage in the mind are having a good life out there, at least they never paid for the one bedroom flat where you housed their shadows, they never tell you thank you for that wnd nobody in the world will pay you for such devilish charity.Release yourself from the feelings that wand trade you happiness for nothing.

Life appears to me too short to be spent in nursing animosity or registering wrongs.”
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre

My dear, is there any freedom than “peace of mind”? This peace is calmer than the rivers, there are no fishes to stir it ones a while. Why do you decide to carry such heavy grudges which affect your relationships and productivity? That attitude is not fair at all. It feels better never to ruminate on such trash. Life will be more fun and interesting and of course lighter if we pack those dirty stuff, burn them in incinerators or throw them into the sea where no matter how your flesh tries, it cannot retrieve them.
“Let today be the day you stop being haunted by the ghost of yesterday. Holding a grudge & harboring anger/resentment is poison to the soul. Get even with people...but not those who have hurt us, forget them, instead get even with those who have helped us.” 

― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
Do not be a prison guard officer who protects offensive statements and acts of neighbors’ and passersby, it is not a worthwhile employment, Be your own boss in the mind. Lock up my dear and be free.